Getting Cozy

Dear Alice,

My boyfriend and I have been dating off and on for two years. We have been having sex for about a year now. The problem is I want to spice up our sex life, but I don't have any imagination. He says he's willing to try anything but he won't give ideas. We've done it in different positions, used sex toys but I can't think of anything fun to try. Please help, give me some suggestions.

Signed,
Unimaginative

Hello Alice,

My girlfriend and I like to drip hot candle wax on each other. Is that safe? Can there be any damage or anything? I wouldn't exactly want anything bad to happen to either of us down there... Thanks!

Dear Alice,

You know how you often see that, for example, a 30-minute jog burns such and such number of calories. Well, I was wondering if there are any figures for sex. Thanks.

— Curious

Dear Alice,

I was wondering just what "hot flashes" are. I've heard that women have them during menopause. I'm just curious.

— q

Alice,

What foods can be used safely for all forms of sex? How do foods need to be prepped? Any "side effects"? I would really like to incorporate food into my sex life, but I'm not sure where to start.

Thanx, Alice.