Week of:
Feb 08, 2019

Definition of virgin?

Dear Alice,

How do you define a virgin? I have never had any sexual intercourse. However, I live in with my girlfriend and we often have "intimate actions" and oral sex. Are we still considered virgins?

Sign me,
Cherry picker

Masturbates=sexually active?

Dear Alice,

If one masturbates but does not get involved in any other sexual activities, is that person considered to be sexually active?


Definitions of bases — and I'm not talking baseball

Dear Alice,

Some of the girls at my school talk about how their boyfriends got to first, second, or third base with them. I feel kind of left out because I don't know exactly what they are. Could you tell me what the bases are for girls and guys? I'd really appreciate it.

— Wondering