What's the deal with drag?

The act of dressing in the clothing of another gender for performance, referred to as "drag," has occurred throughout history and is found in different cultures throughout the world. Drag Queens are men who dress and perform in womanly garb often using exaggerated, over-the-top mannerisms. Drag Kings are women who dress and perform using exaggerated masculine mannerisms and garb.

People, regardless of gender and sexual orientation, dress in drag at various times for many reasons. Some are making a political comment on gender roles. Others express the freedom that taking on another persona gives. Still others see their performance as a form of entertainment for themselves as well as for an audience. Some professional or semi-professional Drag Queens and Kings take their performances seriously and prefer to be referred to by their stage name and the corresponding pronouns ("she" for Drag Queens, "he" for Drag Kings) while in drag. And some just dress in drag, as you mention in your question, because it's fun.

While your friend may be a gay man who performs as a Drag Queen, the act of performing in drag does not indicate sexual orientation or gender identity. Your friend may have his own specific ideas and reasons for dressing in drag. The next time you hang out with him, tell him how good you think he looks in drag, and see if he is open to talking about it. Then you can open a conversation and perhaps learn more about your friend, as well as yourself. Who knows? You both might be performing a torch song duet before long!