To the reader:
Everyone to their own. There is no definative answer to the much debated questions regarding the importance of penis size. To what extent penis size matters to individuals or...
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Dear Alice,
I would like to know why those in the "sex-advice" industry always tell men that size doesn't matter? Almost every woman I have talked to, an admittedly unrepresentative sample, says size DOES matter. They don't want the guy to be too big, but they don't want him to be very small either. All things being equal, bigger, up to a point, seems to be better in the male equipment department.
Do sex advisors tell men size doesn't matter just to make men feel good?
from, Not too big, but not too small either
Dear Not too big, but not too small either,
Speaking for herself, Alice's responses to penis size ponderings tend to tow the size-doesn't-matter line because there can be so much more to relating sexually than the length and width of a partner's penis. Why there's kissing, holding, intimacy, eye contact, one-ness, touching, soul-bearing honesty, trust, breasts, butts, toes, hair, discovery, and so on. Sure, penis size is a big deal to some, while others see it as a little piece of a much bigger sex pie.
May 11, 2009
To the reader:
Everyone to their own. There is no definative answer to the much debated questions regarding the importance of penis size. To what extent penis size matters to individuals or couples depends on many things and influential factors such as sexual orientation, perception of what sex and relationships are or mean etc. The way I see it, the penis is, on average, 5 to 7 inches of the male form. I'd like to believe that this small portion of a man, even if it falls short of or excedes average size is an equaly small part of a relationship. By this I mean that penis size should not sway or in any way determine emotional involvement/closeness between two people. With regards to casual sex; everyone will have their own preferences and perceptions. To some size will matter; to others it won't. Consider this; there will be many people with large penises that perform badly at sex; likewise, there wil be those with small penises that can provide the sexual masterclass. Be thankful and comfortable with what you have; make the most and least of it...
September 29, 2005
Dear Alice,
I am a 24-year-old male, and virtually all of my girlfriends and other friends have said that size matters, at least to some degree.
Alice, you say that so many things...
Dear Alice,
I am a 24-year-old male, and virtually all of my girlfriends and other friends have said that size matters, at least to some degree.
Alice, you say that so many things besides penis size are important in a sexual relationship. And I agree. But the fact that penis size is only one of many important things does not make size irrelevant. However, while it is difficult to change your penis size, you can do other things to improve your lovemaking technique. So that is what one should focus on, I think.
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